The Everyday Grind
Posted by | Posted in Surviving Shanghai, The Everyday Grind | Posted on 11-11-2008
Let’s not candy-coat it here. If you can keep both your eyes closed to the spitting, open belching and farting, little kiddies walking around with a hole in their pants (so that it’s convenient to take a dump on the sidewalk), then you’ll survive most of the culture shock.
Money is the catalyst for any Shanghai motion. You can almost be certain that if there is a way to scam you out of ¥1, it’s going to happen. More often than not, this generally occurs during a scenic route in a cab ride. When haggling for a good price, the rule of thumb is to offer one-third of the quoted cost and work your way from there.
Most locals are generally quite friendly and helpful once you get the issue of money out of the equation. Although English is not widely as spoken compared to other Asian cities like Hong Kong, the younger generation in Shanghai is starting to pick up more English lessons. Contrast to five years ago, the language barrier now is considerably much easier.
To the Shanghainese, ‘face value’ is crucially important. They would do just about anything to not lose ‘face’ or be ashamed. In terms of being polite, regardless of how much you learn, you should always let your host pay for the meal when being invited out.
Name cards are particularly significant as it is considered that without one, you are not taken seriously by the company.
Depending on how decadent you want your lifestyle to be, the cost of living here is relatively cheap – this covers transportation (taxis start at ¥11 during the day), hiring cleaning services or better known as ‘ayis’, and of course the ubiquitous Tsing Tao beer. Supermarkets with western groceries can be found in most of the residential areas. Though they may a bit more expensive, be comforted in the fact that you won’t be craving for your favourite Weissbier or Salt & Vinegar crisps.
As for the pushing and shoving in the subway as well as in supermarkets? Well, there’s no real rationality behind that one. Just be sure to keep your toes covered!
Patience is a Virtue
Don’t get too alarmed – Shanghai in all seriousness does have her own charm. The city is dotted with fascinating areas that remind you of what it would have been like to live here during the Golden Age. More western places are constantly developing, and in a city where there is so much strive for change, it is without a doubt and opportunistic place to be.
Relocating to a new city regardless of where it may be is always a challenge. Shanghai may be trying at first, but the number of expats living here is testament that the city does have a lot to offer. With a handful of salt and a 10 litre stockpot of patience, you’ll find that Shanghai has her own ways of winning you over.



